So as lame as thing is going to sound, yesterday i had an online fight with a girl my fiancee used to work with. see I'll give you guys the cliff notes version of the history and then the cliff notes of yesterday:
past:
she started to work in a new section of the store that is literally right next to his work station. that same day starts telling him how she wants to leave her bf because hes mean to her. when i get there to take him lunch says its awkward that I'm there. a few days later she is telling him about her sexual preferences and says she lost around here since shes new to the area gets his number for directions. she starts texting him all the time saying she misses him and asking about his schedule. i got mad because she texted him while we were at lunch having a date. ( btw I'm pregnant through out all of this and she knows it). I tell her she needs to back off and that texting him and talking to him about what she is talking to him is not appropriate she comes back with a I'm sorry if you feel threatened that he and i get along better and we have more in common, i do my best not to kill her at the store since there would be too many witnesses. next day she cries to his managers and everyone else that i was mean to her for no reason and they almost ban me from the store mean while shes still flirting with him, hes ignoring her because he thinks shes a pile of crap , and every time i go into the store shes calling me a bitch and saying that pregnant people are stupid.
yesterday:
she makes a comment on a mutual friends face book page about how said friend would get more hours than my fiancee because that friend is better than my fiancee. so i retaliate saying shes a dirty bitch. she then replies and uses big words as if i do not know what they mean( by the way her using big words in a fight does not make her smarter she could have been a dumb ass and googled insults) she then in the same post insults my child. i tell her that if she ever talks about my kid again i would rip her head off she replies saying that she will talk about my kid all she wishes and that my fiancee thinks about other women all the time. to which i replied that he did not want her because she is gross and stupid and he felt bad for her because she said she had anxiety issues and had no friends. then she replied that it was the opposite that he wanted her and that she felt bad for him. forward to a few posts later my fiancee jumps in and tell her how he really feels and felt about her yet shes not giving up. all the while I'm holding on to the information that my fiance's dad knows the security people and he saw and heard all the conversations she had with my fiancee and that because of that the store was watching her for sexual harassment.
through all of this i realize that this girl is 22 that's 3 years younger than i and 6 years younger that my fiancee. now I realize shes not that much younger but at the same time theres already a difference in behaviors. for starters most of these younger girls don't respect relationships, they think they should go out and get who they want regardless of their relationship status. but its not just the young girls its all the women lately, women wake up and stop trying to steal other women's men! there are millions of men in the world and yet you have to choose another woman's husband or boyfriend, have respect. we are living in a society of craziness why does no one else see the hurt they are passing along. this young girl almost ruined a good thing between he and i and while yes things are not always perfect no one is therefore no situation can truly be perfect.
I just wish that other women realized these things before acting upon impulses toward men, i always respected the fact that if a man was with someone you leave him alone, once i made a mistake with someone but he never once told me he was married,never wore a ring and i had just met him but once i found out he was history. I just honestly believe that no matter how much you like someone you should back off if they are with someone you will find someone new but the relationship and people you hurt trying to get your way will be on your cosmic conscience the rest of your life, and remember Karma is a bitch.
anyways I'm done venting for now. hopefully i get good news later on in the day and ill have something positive to post up.
"All we need is love"
Amy
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